We live in a world where we believe we must go and take to serve the self. We take this attitude and become separate, self-serving machines. We neglect concern over the well-being of others unless it serves us too. We feel we need to force and control outcomes in order to survive. This stems from all sorts of societal conditioning such as government, mainstream media, family, peer groups. And through this we default to the actions perceived by survival and motivated by fear.
Social Heartistry is a social movement that navigates people out of the prison of the mind and into the body. From this place of feeling, we no longer see the world as separate, cold objects that need to be manipulated and controlled in our favour. Instead, we come from the heart of a child - who sees everything with child-like curiosity and wonder and wants to reconnect everything. We are full of of gratitude and play. Full of unconditionality.
Social Heartistry is being implemented within the dating community first, more specifically the PUA community. This is because this PUA community is an expression of the problems systemic of society and its acquisition mentality - it holds men in their unresolved pain and trauma and offers them the quick fix solution, much like offering heroin to a heroin addict. Once the message of Social Heartistry has been fully infused within this dating community and empowering men to come from a place of co-creation and wellbeing, it will then move onto other communities such as schools, corporations, prisons and so forth. As each community is positively effected, each acts as positive organs of change for the greater whole.
UNRAVELLING THE PROBLEMS WITH THE DATING WORLD
When learning dating material - Whether you choose a mechanical methodology using routines & scripts or follow natural game principles, you are still operating from this core motivation of 'taking' or "picking up" as they say. The problem with this, is that if you go out with the sole intention to TAKE, and you are unsuccessful in taking, you face all the pick-up symptoms such as Rejection, Blow outs, Approach Anxiety and so on. Solutions are formed to destroy anxiety, suppress it, desensitise to it, meditate through it. Yet these are only ways to negate something that is unnecessarily created in the first place. Created through a flawed system grounded in TAKING.
FEELING WHOLE NOT FILLING THE HOLE
The only way to have inner peace and social & sexual freedom, is to transcend the fear-based pick up system completely. Once we reach a true place of wholeness, our view of women moves from "target" / "set", to "goddess / sister / allie / friend", our energy moves from parasitic actions of taking, to symbiotic actions of giving / creating / sharing. We move from control to surrender, from working for a woman to playing with women, from fear to love. I'm here to guide you out the adolescent wastelands of pick up, to the powerful connections your heart desires.
The Social Heartistry revolution has begun...